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5 Tips On Being An Alpha Without Being An Asshole.

 

If there is one masculine trait that really turns women on above all others, it is dominance. We don’t necessarily mean whips, chain and nipple clamps which for some is a bonus but we are talking about a hot sexy man taking control in the bedroom and dishing out the dirty commands.

On a day to day basis, women are bossing it, their independent, strong and intelligent…I could go on 😉 So when it comes to sex, being dominated by someone she trusts, is the ultimate release of responsibilities.

Most women, including the shy, sweet type, have a secret submissive inside that needs satisfying, but how can you be that guy with all the power to please without coming across as cocky?

Take Control

An alpha male takes control and leads his woman to the bedroom. She doesn’t want you to ask or beg for sex, that can be a huge turn-off. As a strong man, a man who your woman respects and is sexually attracted to, it is your job to instigate sex. Build the sexual tension throughout the day by texting her the dirty things you want her to do to you later in return, for her orgasmic reward.

Talk Dirty

If you want to give your woman wild orgasms, the kind that causes her to dig her fingernails into your back, scream your name and come so hard it leaves a smile on her face for the next week – YOU MUST TALK DIRTY. This is because sex is very mental for a woman and for her to orgasm; you must stimulate her body and her mind.

Play Rough

Listen, the romantic movies may show you scenes of soft, slow, gentle love-making BUT the reality is that most women want a man who is a little rough in the bedroom, at least some of the time. Try using the doggy style position and use hard, deep strokes – talk dirty to her as you do it and see what happens. She’ll love it. I guarantee it. You just have to be brave enough to give it a go.

Change Things Up

Most men are painfully dull in the bedroom, and it shows. Why else do so many women get bored of the sex and stop wanting it when they are in a relationship? An alpha male knows that to keep a woman interested in sex and cause her to have orgasms, he must make the sex exciting.

This is easier to do than you may have previously thought. For example…

– One night, take her to the bedroom and test out a few new positions.

– Next time, catch her in the shower and join her for a good scrubbing.

– Another time, lean her over the sofa in the lounge, pull her knickers to one side and treat her like your naughty little slut (Feel free to call her “your naughty little slut” as you do it – she’ll get more excited than you could ever imagine)

See? With a little imagination, it is effortless to keep things interesting in the bedroom.

Make Sure You Give Her Orgasms

An alpha male’s greatest pleasure in life is to look after his woman, and if you do it right, she will look after you. Never ‘take’ without ‘giving’ in the bedroom, a man who cums and forgets to finish her off is no alpha because sooner or later she will stop wanting sex. Learn her pleasure signals, does she moan when you fuck her in a certain way? Or is she tense and seemingly bored? Know what she wants and perform them on her without her needing to tell you.

Avoid these instant turn-offs, if you want to be alpha in the bedroom.

  • Not focusing enough on foreplay – Show off your stamina. Don’t skimp on the foreplay; this can be the hottest part for a woman.
  • Poor & awkward undressing skill – Be smooth, don’t just whip everything straight off and stand there naked ready to start. Make undressing part of the act.
  • Lack of grooming & poor hygiene – Goes without saying, if you want her to give you a blowjob on command, then make sure it’s fresh down there.
  • Being silent & emotionless – Tell her that you are enjoying the filthy stuff she is performing on you, and how hot she looks doing it. Moan, be vocal and loosen your body to the movements.
  • Keeping your sexual fantasies to yourself – Suck it up and tell her, if you want to have the best sex possible you need to be open to explore sexually together. You’re missing out if you don’t.

As long as there is respect, there will be orgasms. Are you a natural alpha and have a few tips to share? Or is the idea of being in control, a massive turn on for you? Let us know in the comments below.